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"we're going our separate ways," she said, "after 25 years, it's that we've become different people," she said, "we've grown in different directions."
how many cliches is that I wondered "well at least there aren't any kids" I said adding another one.
but what does it really mean? do you look across the breakfast table one morning
and say "Hey honey, I think it's over, our marriage bites the dust" and then you both laugh and say "Yeah OK, let's sell the house"? Or is it after horrific months or years of arguing, friction, lack of cohesion, unhappiness, silence, resentment, secrets, or maybe something in between - the anatomy of a good-bye? A good buy?
I know I know, it's a lot of questions, one after another. let's narrow it down to "what do you really mean?" the one allowable question of the day. if consistent and true answering/hearing were prerequisite one could expect to figure out how to achieve world peace by the end of the week.
